Undoubtedly, the word ‘demisexual’ may be unknown to many, and even more so when we live in a context where year after year different types of orientations begin to be discussed. But what does the word demisexual mean and what does it refer to?
Today, taboos are being left behind, and there is more and more freedom to express who we really are. In addition, the old definitions of gender and sexual attraction have been left in the past, giving way to a present that is as diverse as it is interesting.
Among all these changes is the acceptance of other sexual and romantic orientations, which until a few decades ago, would have been silenced by society. One of them is demisexuality, a type of orientation that is gaining more and more recognition.
This concept refers to people who are not attracted to men or women, but prefer to have a relationship with a great emotional connection with their partner, without gender being a determining factor. For people who identify as demisexual, mutual friendship, trust, and affection are critical.
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In fact, the physical appearance of others or their sexual characteristics are also not important to a demisexual person. So to win someone with this orientation, it is better to have a great conversation than to spend hours trying to choose the ideal outfit for the first date.
Due to its peculiarities, demisexuality is far from the best known orientations. Therefore, it is normal for it to be confused with asexuality, which is another type of orientation with very different characteristics.
Demisexuals do not feel sexual attraction or desire for a person who is just entering their lives, but if they become friends and spend time together, sexual attraction may arise.
Sometimes this change takes years, and sometimes it never happens, so a demisexual person might have a lot of friends or a lot of acquaintances, but not feel any sexual desire towards them.
Likewise, someone who is demisexual can fall in love, without having to feel a physical attraction for the other person. This is known as romantic demisexuality.
As for asexuality, it also has similar characteristics, but there is a great point that differentiates it from demisexuality: Asexuals do not feel sexual interest, at all.
On the other hand, someone demisexual can go a long time without being attracted to another person, but when they achieve a deep connection, sexual desire will appear. This is not the case with asexuals, who prefer to live life without sex being their primary concern.
Although societies are increasingly open, there is still a long way to go, especially in the case of demisexuality.
This orientation is still questioned, especially by the classic «love at first sight» or the famous «instant connection». These ideas are very popular and present in all media, from literature to entertainment, but they pose a real challenge for a demisexual person.
So what is it like to be demisexual in the modern world? So far, it’s just one more way to experience sexuality, relationships, and romantic love, in which feelings and emotional bonding outweigh simple physical attraction.
At the end of the day, it is always good to remember that sexual identity has been, and continues to be, an ever-evolving area.
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